What is love?

I do not believe that we fall in or out of love, I believe that everything grows over time.
We start by planting the seeds deep into the earth, if we want them to grow we must care for such seeds.
You do not cast out seeds and run away for the year hoping something great will magically spring up.
You gently water them on the scortching days, careful not to let them be for too long as they may wither away.
You do not plant your seeds where no light or warmth reaches them, you know that providing all the right elements will make them grow strong and healthy.
You must treat love as a seed you plant; letting it grow over time, knowing when to leave it and when to provide it with gentle care. When to weed it and prune the rough edges.
You can not will it to grow faster than it wants, it is not something that can be forced.
Pure unadulterated love will find you and stay with you for life, have patience and a willing spirit.